I know what it means to be strong. I also know strength is not the same as wholeness.

I am Diane A. Butts, a pastor, spiritual life coach, teacher, writer, and community servant. My work is rooted in faith, justice, compassion, and the belief that women deserve more than a life organized around endurance. 


I come from strong Southern people and was shaped by the grit, honesty, and community of Paterson, New Jersey. I learned early how to keep moving, how to care for others, and how to find God in places where life did not arrive neatly wrapped.

Divine Joy grew from lived faith, hard-won wisdom, and a refusal to let survival have the final word.

Across decades of service as a social worker, leadership coach, pastor, wife, mother, grandmother, mentor, and community servant, I have walked beside people through grief, transition, trauma, faith questions, leadership pressure, and the quiet ache of losing themselves while taking care of everybody else. 


Divine Joy is the gathering place for what those years taught me: healing is sacred work; rest is not laziness; boundaries can be holy; joy is not denial; and God is still in the repair business.

Embrace Your Reality

Together, we've navigated the weight of expectations, feeling invisible amid our giving spirits. As life pulls us into chaos, we often forget to pause and nurture our sacred selves. But within this space, we unearth healing, softly aligning with divine intention and rediscovering our inner joy.

Balancing The Gifts We Freely Share

We wear many hats, serving others with love, yet our spirits yearn for sanctuary. Our hearts long to reconnect with what truly matters, fostering authentic balance and sacred peace in the whirlwind of daily life.

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Diane Butts

Spiritual Life Coach & Pastor


Guided by spirituality, we bridge personal growth and faith. Our expert, Diane, is a pastor and seasoned coach, crafting a haven for transformation. Embrace sacred rest and self-worth, untangling societal norms to reclaim authenticity in a nurturing community.

About Us - Our Journey Of Guiding Light

Our Journey of Guiding Light

Through years of service, we have nurtured countless women on their journeys to spiritual clarity and growth. Our experience empowers us to provide unique insights and tools for transformation, grounding our offerings in both wisdom and compassion, honoring every soul's path.

What I Believe

We are treasure in earthen vessels. We are sacred and resilient, but we are not unbreakable.

God’s love does not demand that women disappear inside service, strength, or sacrifice.

Rest, healing, truth-telling, boundaries, community, and joy are spiritual practices.

Transformation does not erase our stories. It helps us carry them without being crushed by them.

Joy is not shallow happiness. It is a life force that draws us closer to God and helps us live fully.